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kkaylo has been a member since 4/1/09 and was last logged in on 4/11/14

Going Home 9/8/11 10:11 PM

Ron is coming home from the hospital tomorrow. He had surgery on Monday and they found that the underlying tissue above his wound and half way up his back necrotized and basically turned to mush. He was cut alonside his right spine and the dead tissue removed as well as the muscle. They will not be able to fix it as hoped for. He is in much more pain now due to the open wound going up to the middle of his back. Prior to this surgery the wound was below his level of paralysis so he didn't feel pain from it. He will be coming home with Hospice care to manage his pain and to help us out in any way needed. He will be on IV therapy and we will continue to keep his wounds cleaned and packed, but that is all that can be done. It will not heal. It is Rons wish to be in his own home surrounded by his family for what time he does have left. He will be a DNR and will not go back to the hospital for any more treatment.This is his choice and I will honor it, giving him as much love and happiness as I can for as long as God allows. Love, Kathleen

Comments

  • ac68kr

    Sending prayers from my lips to God's ear. Enjoy each day with each other. You have a special love that nothing will ever destory. God Bless you both. Love and hugs Kathy

  • Islander00603

    Ron, You, & your family will be in my prayers. May our Lord send His angels all around you both & help you with every need. God Bless Ya Both, T

  • glorysway

    May God continue to feel you with His peace as you both go through this pain. May He love and console you and allow this short time left together to be filled with nothing but His peace. I prayers are with you both and I pray for strength to endure. Cheryl

  • pammie29907

    KATHLEEN AND RON I WILL KEEP BOTH OF YOU IN MY PRAYERS. MAY YOU BOTH HAVE SOME PIECE. HOSPICE IS A GREAT WAY TO HELP YOU IN THE PATH YOU BOTH ARE TAKING. ALL MY LOVE PAMMIE

  • wakewitch

    KATHLEEN AN RON ..GOS HAS BLESSED YOU BOTH FIRST WITH EACH OTHER AN THEN WITH MORE TIME ..MORE THAN YOU EVER THOUGHT LAST MAY YOU WOULD HAVE.. GOD HAS MADE YOU STRONG ENOUGH TO ACCEPT WHAT WILL BE AN TO ENDURE WHAT IS ,HE WON'T LET YOU DOWN NOW TRUST IN HIM!! WE ARE WITH YOU TOO!

  • ac68kr

    Live each day and do not worry about the future as God has a plan for each one of us. You are a very special woman to give your man what ever he wants, no matter what. God will always be with you & Ron.God Bless you both.Your King family will be here for both of you praying & Loving. Hugs Kathy