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How to deal with close minded? 8/15/12 6:05 PM

any idea!!

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  • .L.O.V.E.

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    what's new :p

  • Fearless...

    I try to look past thier closed mind and find something about them that is similar to me . Then I go through that " door " which is open, listen carefully, you will hear thier reason for being closed, might be a poor reason ~ might be a good reason for it! Then seek to help them , ♥


    good tip..... ,, hey , ,one question, which one are u , close or open minded.. ? as for me, they put me under close minded category...

  • Fearless...

    Simply put ... close minded is like driving a long way to eat at a favorite resturaunt but when you get there its closed. What do you do ? try to open it? no , you just understand , it is "closed"and hope when you return you might get inside.If you care to try again you are better prepared ....


    i like that example...... now i wonder which restaurant is that, u made me hungry , i better go and eat something .. lol. ...... it is nice example but tell me how to deal.. which technique do u use?

  • Bella......

    Then U maintain a posture of curiosity rather than defensiveness. U put yourself and the other person on one side of the table and the ideas on the other side. This would allow him to debate the ideas and be very persuasive while keeping the egos in the room from going to war.


    i better try that once i deal with them. i'll see if it works .. tak. :)

  • Bella......

    there is a great method for this. u can introduce an absentee third party into the discussion whenever U have to disagree with someone.For example, u can start a sentence with, “How would you respond if someone suggested that…” or “I once heard someone say that or “It’s been rumored ..


    ohrighty,,,,,, good technique

  • Bella......

    hihihi it doesn't take an Einstein. ;-). And from experience dear !


    well,, u sound u know a lot about it.. let's see how much i can learn form u .


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