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Happy 50th Birthday to my Sister Tina 10/21/09 11:28 AM
Well, here we go. Friday, October 23rd will be my Dear Sisters Birthday. I saw her and talked to her 2 weeks before she passed away. All she really wanted was to make it to our family reunion, and to make 50 years young. Well, she didn't get to see either of them. She battled throat cancer 2 years ago, and won! Only to be found dead June 8th 2009, in her home from Bacterial Pneumonia. My heart is broken, and I don't know how to fix it. Everyone has been telling me that it will get better with time. LIARS!!!! No amount of time can heal this wound. Is it fair to say that I'm angry with God?? Yes!! I guess he just needed that Special Angel with him. She will always be with me in my heart!! "If tears were a stairway, and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to heaven and bring you home again"!! I Love You Tina Marie!! God Rest!! Oh yea. My sister's favorite flower was a rose. So, I got a Memorial tattoo for her of a rose, her mane, and dates. I'll post a pic. sometime. Thank You all for all the kind words and support. You have all helped me a great deal!!
I lost my only sister to colon cancer on Dec. 25, 1990. She was only 3 years younger & only 26, so I understand how you feel. Time heals the wounds and you always have the memories together and the ggod times you shared. Christmas was hard for several years, but time has healed that too.
Just remember Tina is in every rainbow and rose you see. Its a reminder that she is still in your heart and is near you in her own way so you won't forget her ever! When you see a rainbow she is looking down to say hello and she is happy and misses you too!...Irene
What a lovely thought!! Thanks hun!!
I hope u get thru this tough day.. my mom died on October 15th and it was her birthday on the 23rd, so.. that was harsh.. no more fun time together :-( my mother designed her own funeral card, it had a rose on it.. her favorite flower.. it also is mine now.. u take it easy today hun xxx Marjan
See, we have yet another thing in common. The ROSE!!! Thanks for the kind words and support. That means sooooo much!!!
As long as your Sister is in your heart she will never truly leave you and will remain to watch and guide you. x
Thanks hun. I truely believe that!!
Open wounds will heal but it will leave a scar and like all scars it will hurt you from time to time. Your wound is still very fresh ; it still need some bandage ( love and support from family and friends). It's good to cry and feel hurted but don't forget the good times and the laughters. Big hug♥
The good times, and good memories are I think what keeps me going. It is just so hard!! I really want to talk to her, you know??
What can I say? I lost a relative in 1982 and still think of him. I DO know, that the first time is awful, but it WILL get better - probably the wound will not heal completely, but heal enough for you to live your life happy enough to go on - you mourn for her now, let that take time! You need it!
Well, Thank You!!! So many people are telling me that it's time to get over it. Yea, Right!!! My heart does not heal that easily!!